We have all felt jealous from time to time. From when we were small children wishing we could have the toys the other kids had to growing up and being envious of co-workers getting that promotion that passed you by. But the jealousy you feel when deep in the throws of love can be painful and destructive to an otherwise great relationship. Sometimes there is no reason to feel jealous and then there are times someone can drive you crazy with it intentionally. What is jealousy really? Let’s take a look.
Being envious can be a sign that you are not fully aware of the power you have and the position you are in. When you are in a relationship with someone special, you have to put aside all reason to suppose that your spouse would actually cheat, lie or screw up everything you have built with each other and all of a sudden, out of the blue, be more interested in someone else than you. Even though couples break up all the time, the signs are apparently clear sometimes for years that trouble is brewing. If you really look at yourself and you are happy with the person you are engaged with, jealousy will only rear it’s head if you have totally lost site of the beauty and importance of the relationship. YOU are the special person that your lover has chosen to be with. No one else. Otherwise, they would be with THEM. You have to know in your heart and say to yourself: “She wants to be with me. I’m the one she has chosen.” You have been placed above all else in this person’s mind. There is absolutely nothing to fear when you realize the truth of the situation.
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